Winning an Education Against the Odds
Starting at CCV while she was pregnant at age 27, Warner faced the perfect storm awaiting every single mother returning to school: a tight financial squeeze and the constant scheduling- juggle of trying to balance motherhood, classwork and child care. One key to Warner's ability to succeed in her college education was the strong support of friends and family. "It took some adjusting," she said, "but when I had to take night classes, friends would babysit for me, and when I was under time crunches, they'd take him from me for a little while." Warner received tuition assistance from Reach Up, Vermont's Postsecondary Education (PSE) program, but her educational ambitions frequently exceeded the program's parameters. Pursuing a double major in business and financial accounting would put her over the number of credits per semester for which the program will pay. And it is not uncommon for an accounting textbook for a single class to cost $300. Warner made up the gap by adding 20 hours a week of work-study in CCV's Montpelier business office to her tight schedule. She also received merit scholarships, and this year was awarded a new Student Leadership Scholarship from CCV, honoring not only her high academic success, but her engagement in community and campus volunteerism, particularly her role as a peer tutor. Volunteering to tutor fellow students gave Warner useful insight into why some students don't make it to graduation day. "There is a stigma that students associate with going to get help," she said. "By the time they are failing or getting an incomplete, they put it off too long, and there's no way to fix it, so they ultimately drop the class, or don't continue." Graduating this spring from CCV, Warner has applied to Johnson State College, and is determined to complete a bachelor's degree within the additional two years allotted her under Reach Up's PSE assistance program. Her motivations are clear: "The knowledge you get being in school is awesome. And now, especially with the economy tough, and everyone looking for jobs, for one opening there are thousands of applicants. So having that degree will make you stand out." From Student to Dean Debby Stewart is the daughter of divorced parents who never went to college. Despite her expectation while in high school that she'd go on to college, "I didn't know how that happened and neither did my mother. We didn't know any of the concrete knowledge or steps to get there. So at a certain point it just felt like an impossible kind of thing for me." College finance speakers at her high school enthusiastically prodded Stewart to apply for merit scholarships in light of her stellar academic record. But even the promise of financial support could not overcome her mother's caution about treading into this unknown endeavor. "Her response was, well, what about the rest of the money?" Stewart recalled. "My mother's fear was I would set off on a bus, and there wouldn't be enough money for me to come back if it was a big mistake. There was a real concern that I shouldn't accept money, as I didn't know what was expected of me, or how to pay it back." ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Every semester I would sign up for classes and start, and ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Given the struggle today's families have repaying student loans, the worry was not unfounded. Doubt, caution and a relationship with a boyfriend in Stewart's senior year of high school in 1981 undermined her college plans. Although her guidance counselor warned that if she didn't go straight to school she'd never go back, her mother was "somewhat relieved, as she knew the pathway that went through marriage and family, and didn't know the path through college," Stewart said. Stewart got married, had a baby, and then wound up as the single mother of a toddler. She steeled herself against the doubts and fears that remained, and walked into the CCV Springfield office. She started classes in 1986, and by the time she graduated with her associate's degree in 1989, she was remarried with an additional child. The intense challenges of juggling parenting, family schedules, money and classwork provided great focus. "I found the [challenges] really helped me to become clear about what I wanted," she said. "That was such a gift to be given."
Stewart credits a combination of luck and a supportive husband with getting her through. Her parents did not have a lot to give to assist her, but they were proud of her, and did not undermine her journey through higher education—a distinct advantage over the many households where families try to actively sabotage a college student's studies. Appetite for Knowledge Monica Mossey was born in Burlington in 1984 with a rare, profound congenital heart and lung condition: truncus arteriosus type II, in which the aorta and pulmonary artery grow as a single blood vessel rather than two. She experiences complications including severe pulmonary hypertension and hypoplastic arteries. She has one-and-a-half lungs, a conduit in her heart and three stents in her right lung; she was born with severe hearing loss, and is now deaf. Her life has been punctuated by serious surgery, illness and infection as her young body struggled forward through major and minor setbacks. Through her teens, her body was slowly dying as she watched her peers play sports, go swimming, spend the night at friends' houses, go to the mall. Filled with envy, and a certainty that her time on earth would soon be over, Monica read, drew and studied. In early 2001 a third open-heart surgery changed her life. It gave her enough strength to get a driver's learners permit, and then in 2003, to leave her wheelchair, and walk across the stage at Milton Junior/Senior High School to receive a diploma with high honors. Mossey graduated from CCV this January with an associate's degree in business, and a 3.9 GPA.
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I know that there are some things I just cannot change, ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "Being an independent person, a hard and serious worker, having motivation and confidence in myself are other factors that have led me to succeed in my academic studies," she said. "I know that there are some things I just cannot change, so I live and deal with each day one at a time. I am laughing and as happy as I will ever be. The things that I am able to do, I do it the best I can. I take great pride in the things that I can do, and I excel, and do them excellently." Factors for Success A graduate of Middlebury College and University of Vermont (UVM), Dee Stefan is executive director of the CCV academic centers in Winooski, St. Albans and Middlebury. She's been an administrator at CCV since 1985. Stefan has watched the toll that increasing time demands and a lethargic economy have imposed on college efforts. "Our students have always juggled competing priorities in their lives, but never more so than today," she said. "The need to work while attending college presses in on them, as do family obligations and a tight job market when they graduate. The pressure to succeed academically can be intense, and yet the reality is that many must carve out precious moments between these other priorities to meet the demands of school." Stefan also pondered the effect that social media and small-screen dependence are taking on "the age-old academic building blocks of close reading, careful writing, quantitative reasoning, interpersonal communication and critical thinking." Student resilience in this high-stakes academic era comes down to personal commitment. The students most likely to succeed are those who have a goal, Stefan said: "A real goal that means something to them, comes from inside them, and [is one] that they can keep front and center so that when they hit the inevitable rough spots along the way, they recognize them as speed bumps and not collapsed bridges." College structure, such as small classes, can help fuel the fire to reach that goal. When students think their voices matter to the quality of the conversation in their classes, they are more likely to attend. "But at root, students who come to us with grit and determination and a strengthened sense of their own self-worth are more likely to persist through adversity." Students who are the first in their families to attend college often have the most difficult time, and must summon great courage "to walk through the door to a strange new world, without the benefit of the assumption that they will go to college and be successful. Often they lack the vocabulary, the context, the familiarity, the sense of belonging that seeps in by osmosis when siblings or parents or aunts or uncles—or even friends—have gone to college," Stefan said. College is a place of growth, and some growth comes easily, and some is excruciatingly painstaking. Small and steady forward steps characterize the path to graduation. The very courses that students often dread, or undertake thinking that they will never get it, are often filled with "aha" moments that begin to build a foundation of positive experiences that lead to success. |
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Cindy Hill, a professor at Champlain College, is also a contributing editor at Vermont Woman. |