Refusing Blame, Embracing Rage: A Rape Survivor
Sows the Seeds of a Revolution
This is not my story, but I write it anyway. It became my story,
and yet it is still her life. I tell it to pay tribute to a woman
stronger than words can convey, who would laugh at me for saying
so; to acknowledge the woman and mourn the pain that brought
her into being. What is a woman’s life without pain? We
are nature-made to dilate – the word alone makes me cringe,
but that pain is natural, it is transformative, creative, life-affirming
and unforgettable. The pain of being raped is also transformative,
it is also unforgettable, but it is not natural. It is destructive,
annihilating, external and seemingly uncontrollable. This is
the story of one woman who said no, who meant no, and who made
that a reality far behind the late-night assault despite efforts
to insist that it was all her fault in the first place.
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